Are stocks outside your comfort zone? • 09.16.09
How does all this make you feel? Even if you have large profits in your stock account, has it been worth it? Few investors have the emotional makeup to be happy in a long-term relationship with stocks.
A happy stock investor can process emotions quickly and act appropriately. He is not numb or emotionless in his investing. He sees losses in his portfolio, feels the pain, and the pain motivates him to do his research. He does not blindly hope to get out when he breaks even. He is realistic about conflicts of interest with employees and brokers. He takes action or determines not to act based on research, not stock prices. Numb investors avoidthe pain of losses until they crack under stress. They are the ones who panic at the final bottom.
The happy mutual fund investor is aware of fund fees, turnover, taxes, trading costs, and sales pressure. After fully researching funds, she accepts reasonable costs as a tradeoff to allow her to focus on other areas of her life. She never buys a fund based on sales pressure or loyalty to the fund family. Rather, she owns funds on their merits. She feels her losses and her gains, and then makes buy and sell decisions based on fund fundamentals and not on fund prices.
The happy investor has many emotional ups and downs, but makes few trades. He recognizes that stock investing is a long-term commitment. He can sit for years on his stocks and funds and not make a single trade even though prices double and get cut in half. Meanwhile, he enjoys research and information gathering. The unhappy stock investor experiences these same ups and downs as trauma.
